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04 Apr 2017
Gratitude

The Mustard Seed Parable

One of the themes of my life the past six years has been, “Bloom where you are planted”.

I wanted to leave Orange County the moment I arrived. I let the preconceived notions I had become realities, and settled into this place with judgements and biases. That was unfair. 

And now, our roots are taking hold – and I need to be reminded of more than just to bloom right where I am. I need to live it. And actually give in and bloom for Lawd’s sake! 

I have been reminded that you CHOOSE how you see the world and your surroundings. Things are often not as bad or hard as they seem. In fact, in my life I have blessings galore and so so many things to be grateful for. 

Instead of being that stubborn seed who refuses to push up through the soil from winter, I want to be the new bud of Spring. Wow, cheesy analogy lady over here! 

I was on a walk just two days ago and took this photo of the wild mustard plants. We had them everywhere growing up, and it reminds me of being a kid. Which means I love it. I looked up the symbolism of a mustard seed and read about a parable in the Bible. I’m not one to know these things off hand – and  not one to quote the Bible, but the lesson struck me. 

The gist is this: be careful not to grow like a weed – too big too fast. 

The past few years have been a whirlwind of amazingness for me. Got married, started a business, got a house, got a puppy, and got pregnant all within two years. 

All of the things I had ever dreamed of – in fact, I realized that my dreams sort of stopped around age 29 in my mind, like I would wake up on my thirtieth birthday to a banner hanging in front of the bed that read, “And she lived happily ever after. The end.” 

Disney, you bastard! While there have been far far more dreamy blessings than anything, I have experienced ups and downs too (sick parents, passing grandparents, work failures, emotional meltdowns, anxiety, fears, etc.). And I’ve gotten WAY too caught up in them. 

Letting them define my overall emotional state, and my identity. Oh you made a bad business decision? Then clearly you are a bad business person, and you make bad decisions. Whoa, is that what I’ve been telling myself? You betcha. 

How often we forget. We forget the good life we live, and instead get consumed in comparison and societal garbage, and the pressure and the expectations of how you’re “supposed to do it” if you want to “do it right”. There is no right. 

So it’s become time for me to take the next step into shedding the perfectionism layer. This April I hope to embark on an 8 week little journey to unweave some of the things that hold me back. I’ll report on it. After all the self-help books and the leadership meetings, and the good intentions, I need to get my hands dirty and sew the seeds. 

It’s time. 

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Perhaps they’ll look back and giggle together about how mom made them sing a song to an Elderberry bush as a gift of reciprocity when we had nothing else. 

Or maybe they’ll long for the sweet days with sticky hands from pulling needles off rosemary stems, and returning worms to their dirt homes. 

Maybe they’ll resent how much they “had to garden” as teenagers, rediscovering it a decade later, much like my own journey. 

No matter the destination, the moments when we’re out adventuring together talking about wild fennel and cactus flowers, treasuring the perfect-heighted walking stick and a Turkey vulture feather - those are the moments when my soul sighs with contentment and I know that I have done enough. 

#raisethemwild #wildandfreechildren #motherhoodrising #foraging
Perhaps they’ll look back and giggle together about how mom made them sing a song to an Elderberry bush as a gift of reciprocity when we had nothing else. 

Or maybe they’ll long for the sweet days with sticky hands from pulling needles off rosemary stems, and returning worms to their dirt homes. 

Maybe they’ll resent how much they “had to garden” as teenagers, rediscovering it a decade later, much like my own journey. 

No matter the destination, the moments when we’re out adventuring together talking about wild fennel and cactus flowers, treasuring the perfect-heighted walking stick and a Turkey vulture feather - those are the moments when my soul sighs with contentment and I know that I have done enough. 

#raisethemwild #wildandfreechildren #motherhoodrising #foraging
Perhaps they’ll look back and giggle together about how mom made them sing a song to an Elderberry bush as a gift of reciprocity when we had nothing else. 

Or maybe they’ll long for the sweet days with sticky hands from pulling needles off rosemary stems, and returning worms to their dirt homes. 

Maybe they’ll resent how much they “had to garden” as teenagers, rediscovering it a decade later, much like my own journey. 

No matter the destination, the moments when we’re out adventuring together talking about wild fennel and cactus flowers, treasuring the perfect-heighted walking stick and a Turkey vulture feather - those are the moments when my soul sighs with contentment and I know that I have done enough. 

#raisethemwild #wildandfreechildren #motherhoodrising #foraging
Perhaps they’ll look back and giggle together about how mom made them sing a song to an Elderberry bush as a gift of reciprocity when we had nothing else. 

Or maybe they’ll long for the sweet days with sticky hands from pulling needles off rosemary stems, and returning worms to their dirt homes. 

Maybe they’ll resent how much they “had to garden” as teenagers, rediscovering it a decade later, much like my own journey. 

No matter the destination, the moments when we’re out adventuring together talking about wild fennel and cactus flowers, treasuring the perfect-heighted walking stick and a Turkey vulture feather - those are the moments when my soul sighs with contentment and I know that I have done enough. 

#raisethemwild #wildandfreechildren #motherhoodrising #foraging
Perhaps they’ll look back and giggle together about how mom made them sing a song to an Elderberry bush as a gift of reciprocity when we had nothing else. 

Or maybe they’ll long for the sweet days with sticky hands from pulling needles off rosemary stems, and returning worms to their dirt homes. 

Maybe they’ll resent how much they “had to garden” as teenagers, rediscovering it a decade later, much like my own journey. 

No matter the destination, the moments when we’re out adventuring together talking about wild fennel and cactus flowers, treasuring the perfect-heighted walking stick and a Turkey vulture feather - those are the moments when my soul sighs with contentment and I know that I have done enough. 

#raisethemwild #wildandfreechildren #motherhoodrising #foraging
Perhaps they’ll look back and giggle together about how mom made them sing a song to an Elderberry bush as a gift of reciprocity when we had nothing else. 

Or maybe they’ll long for the sweet days with sticky hands from pulling needles off rosemary stems, and returning worms to their dirt homes. 

Maybe they’ll resent how much they “had to garden” as teenagers, rediscovering it a decade later, much like my own journey. 

No matter the destination, the moments when we’re out adventuring together talking about wild fennel and cactus flowers, treasuring the perfect-heighted walking stick and a Turkey vulture feather - those are the moments when my soul sighs with contentment and I know that I have done enough. 

#raisethemwild #wildandfreechildren #motherhoodrising #foraging
Perhaps they’ll look back and giggle together about how mom made them sing a song to an Elderberry bush as a gift of reciprocity when we had nothing else. 

Or maybe they’ll long for the sweet days with sticky hands from pulling needles off rosemary stems, and returning worms to their dirt homes. 

Maybe they’ll resent how much they “had to garden” as teenagers, rediscovering it a decade later, much like my own journey. 

No matter the destination, the moments when we’re out adventuring together talking about wild fennel and cactus flowers, treasuring the perfect-heighted walking stick and a Turkey vulture feather - those are the moments when my soul sighs with contentment and I know that I have done enough. 

#raisethemwild #wildandfreechildren #motherhoodrising #foraging
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Perhaps they’ll look back and giggle together about how mom made them sing a song to an Elderberry bush as a gift of reciprocity when we had nothing else.

Or maybe they’ll long for the sweet days with sticky hands from pulling needles off rosemary stems, and returning worms to their dirt homes.

Maybe they’ll resent how much they “had to garden” as teenagers, rediscovering it a decade later, much like my own journey.

No matter the destination, the moments when we’re out adventuring together talking about wild fennel and cactus flowers, treasuring the perfect-heighted walking stick and a Turkey vulture feather – those are the moments when my soul sighs with contentment and I know that I have done enough.

#raisethemwild #wildandfreechildren #motherhoodrising #foraging

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Why water with soaker hoses, you ask? I’ll tell you. 

They’re flexible, moveable, controllable, and hide well.

I love hand watering too, but this is much more of a long term and steady choice. 

Linked in stories and highlights AND on the blog for you. But bookmark this puppy so you don’t forget. These are Linex brand. 

I’ve used them before (hence these photos) and with clients! Love love. 

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Making final movesđź’§Got the last piece for my bed irrigation today! 

Why water with soaker hoses, you ask? I’ll tell you. 

They’re flexible, moveable, controllable, and hide well.

I love hand watering too, but this is much more of a long term and steady choice. 

Linked in stories and highlights AND on the blog for you. But bookmark this puppy so you don’t forget. These are Linex brand. 

I’ve used them before (hence these photos) and with clients! Love love. 

#irrigation #soakerhose #gardendesign #kitchengarden #gardenersofinstagram
Making final movesđź’§Got the last piece for my bed irrigation today! 

Why water with soaker hoses, you ask? I’ll tell you. 

They’re flexible, moveable, controllable, and hide well.

I love hand watering too, but this is much more of a long term and steady choice. 

Linked in stories and highlights AND on the blog for you. But bookmark this puppy so you don’t forget. These are Linex brand. 

I’ve used them before (hence these photos) and with clients! Love love. 

#irrigation #soakerhose #gardendesign #kitchengarden #gardenersofinstagram
Making final movesđź’§Got the last piece for my bed irrigation today! 

Why water with soaker hoses, you ask? I’ll tell you. 

They’re flexible, moveable, controllable, and hide well.

I love hand watering too, but this is much more of a long term and steady choice. 

Linked in stories and highlights AND on the blog for you. But bookmark this puppy so you don’t forget. These are Linex brand. 

I’ve used them before (hence these photos) and with clients! Love love. 

#irrigation #soakerhose #gardendesign #kitchengarden #gardenersofinstagram
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Making final movesđź’§Got the last piece for my bed irrigation today!

Why water with soaker hoses, you ask? I’ll tell you.

They’re flexible, moveable, controllable, and hide well.

I love hand watering too, but this is much more of a long term and steady choice.

Linked in stories and highlights AND on the blog for you. But bookmark this puppy so you don’t forget. These are Linex brand.

I’ve used them before (hence these photos) and with clients! Love love.

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I’m so proud of the pledges that I’ve made. Going out on a limb for the environment, is never a mistake. 

And in the journey for safer, cleaner, better, I’ve found amazing people on a similar mission. 

#ad @growbughut is a company that creates nutrients (like vitamins) for plants. They actually found a way to give our plants and soil antioxidants and good bacteria to help our plants actually uptake the nutrients they need (like nitrogen and phosphorus). 

Not a fertilizer. Not toxic. Safe for kids and pets! Safe for planet earth. 

#organicgardening #growbughut #sustainability #gardentips
I’m so proud of the pledges that I’ve made. Going out on a limb for the environment, is never a mistake. 

And in the journey for safer, cleaner, better, I’ve found amazing people on a similar mission. 

#ad @growbughut is a company that creates nutrients (like vitamins) for plants. They actually found a way to give our plants and soil antioxidants and good bacteria to help our plants actually uptake the nutrients they need (like nitrogen and phosphorus). 

Not a fertilizer. Not toxic. Safe for kids and pets! Safe for planet earth. 

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I’m so proud of the pledges that I’ve made. Going out on a limb for the environment, is never a mistake.

And in the journey for safer, cleaner, better, I’ve found amazing people on a similar mission.

#ad @growbughut is a company that creates nutrients (like vitamins) for plants. They actually found a way to give our plants and soil antioxidants and good bacteria to help our plants actually uptake the nutrients they need (like nitrogen and phosphorus).

Not a fertilizer. Not toxic. Safe for kids and pets! Safe for planet earth.

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Nobody prepares you for what the destination of doing *what you love* and being present with *who you love* is like. 

I thought “finding my passion” or uncovering my calling was the hard part. 

No no. It’s managing life in the always wobbly balance of wanting to do many things fully and focused all at once. 

It’s the biggest treasure of my life, this grappling. But it’s still a tango of dips and marches, some graceful, some stomach lurching. A beautiful dance nonetheless. 

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Nobody prepares you for what the destination of doing *what you love* and being present with *who you love* is like. 

I thought “finding my passion” or uncovering my calling was the hard part. 

No no. It’s managing life in the always wobbly balance of wanting to do many things fully and focused all at once. 

It’s the biggest treasure of my life, this grappling. But it’s still a tango of dips and marches, some graceful, some stomach lurching. A beautiful dance nonetheless. 

{swipe to see some fave captures}

#motherhoodthroughinstagram #motherhoodunplugged #mompreneur #raisethemwild #gardenersofinstagram #gardenersworld 

📸: @kamiarant
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I thought “finding my passion” or uncovering my calling was the hard part. 

No no. It’s managing life in the always wobbly balance of wanting to do many things fully and focused all at once. 

It’s the biggest treasure of my life, this grappling. But it’s still a tango of dips and marches, some graceful, some stomach lurching. A beautiful dance nonetheless. 

{swipe to see some fave captures}

#motherhoodthroughinstagram #motherhoodunplugged #mompreneur #raisethemwild #gardenersofinstagram #gardenersworld 

📸: @kamiarant
Nobody prepares you for what the destination of doing *what you love* and being present with *who you love* is like. 

I thought “finding my passion” or uncovering my calling was the hard part. 

No no. It’s managing life in the always wobbly balance of wanting to do many things fully and focused all at once. 

It’s the biggest treasure of my life, this grappling. But it’s still a tango of dips and marches, some graceful, some stomach lurching. A beautiful dance nonetheless. 

{swipe to see some fave captures}

#motherhoodthroughinstagram #motherhoodunplugged #mompreneur #raisethemwild #gardenersofinstagram #gardenersworld 

📸: @kamiarant
Nobody prepares you for what the destination of doing *what you love* and being present with *who you love* is like. 

I thought “finding my passion” or uncovering my calling was the hard part. 

No no. It’s managing life in the always wobbly balance of wanting to do many things fully and focused all at once. 

It’s the biggest treasure of my life, this grappling. But it’s still a tango of dips and marches, some graceful, some stomach lurching. A beautiful dance nonetheless. 

{swipe to see some fave captures}

#motherhoodthroughinstagram #motherhoodunplugged #mompreneur #raisethemwild #gardenersofinstagram #gardenersworld 

📸: @kamiarant
Nobody prepares you for what the destination of doing *what you love* and being present with *who you love* is like. 

I thought “finding my passion” or uncovering my calling was the hard part. 

No no. It’s managing life in the always wobbly balance of wanting to do many things fully and focused all at once. 

It’s the biggest treasure of my life, this grappling. But it’s still a tango of dips and marches, some graceful, some stomach lurching. A beautiful dance nonetheless. 

{swipe to see some fave captures}

#motherhoodthroughinstagram #motherhoodunplugged #mompreneur #raisethemwild #gardenersofinstagram #gardenersworld 

📸: @kamiarant
Nobody prepares you for what the destination of doing *what you love* and being present with *who you love* is like. 

I thought “finding my passion” or uncovering my calling was the hard part. 

No no. It’s managing life in the always wobbly balance of wanting to do many things fully and focused all at once. 

It’s the biggest treasure of my life, this grappling. But it’s still a tango of dips and marches, some graceful, some stomach lurching. A beautiful dance nonetheless. 

{swipe to see some fave captures}

#motherhoodthroughinstagram #motherhoodunplugged #mompreneur #raisethemwild #gardenersofinstagram #gardenersworld 

📸: @kamiarant
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Nobody prepares you for what the destination of doing *what you love* and being present with *who you love* is like.

I thought “finding my passion” or uncovering my calling was the hard part.

No no. It’s managing life in the always wobbly balance of wanting to do many things fully and focused all at once.

It’s the biggest treasure of my life, this grappling. But it’s still a tango of dips and marches, some graceful, some stomach lurching. A beautiful dance nonetheless.

{swipe to see some fave captures}

#motherhoodthroughinstagram #motherhoodunplugged #mompreneur #raisethemwild #gardenersofinstagram #gardenersworld

📸: @kamiarant

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